THE PRESENCE OF THE PAST

We are influenced by those who came before us and influencing those who come after. Everything in the universe is interconnected so are we. We inherit cultures and experiences. This is known as collective unconscious or memory in nature.

Memory in nature organises itself in systems such as flock of birds, religions, countries, football teams and so on but the most important system for human beings is the family. Family systems are responsible for how we live and how we thrive through natural laws called 'The Orders of Love".

The orders of love rarely exist intact within the average family. They dictate who belongs and how disruption happens when a family member has been excluded by their families. All exclusions creates disruption. They are known as entanglements.

'The idea of the memory being the brain is an assumption. Everything that happens in our culture we inherit,' Rupert Sheldrake.

MY BOOK: HEALING THE PRESENCE OF THE PAST is available on my website CHRISTINABUCHER*COM

Whilst life is the greatest gift given to us by our parents, trauma is the greatest obstacle. It plays like a broken record, in cycles and shows itself through symptoms well known to all: drug addiction, lack of motivation, new partner with the same behaviour as the old one, always working but broke most of the time...

• What if a man’s drug addiction were really a search for connection with his father?

• Suppose a suicidal adolescent was unconsciously trying to follow the fate of an older brother who wasn't born because the mother had a miscarriage?

• What if a woman’s breast cancer were rooted in the unconscious feeling of guilt for having had an abortion?

• Why do people who adopt children often end up divorcing or losing all intimacy in their marriage?

• Why do marriages where a spouse who cheated then was forgiven ends?

• What if a man's alcoholism is because of an unconscious loyalty to his alcoholic father?

• Can a person’s chronic low back pain actually represents the need to show respect to their mother or father?

• What if the guilt a person feels really belongs to a family member who's been a slave owner or a Nazi soldier?

WHAT TO EXPECT?

Get a good understanding on how this family therapy works; the orders of love and how they are responsible for how you live and thrive. Learn about entanglements, blind love and patterns that keep you where you don't want to be.

According to Bert Hellinger, all pains come from some type of separation that later become unconscious destructive patterns affecting the family members and generations to come.

LOOK AT SOME MAJOR SIGNS A STORY NEEDS HEALING:

• No matter your efforts, success doesn't come to you.

• Money is a struggle; you either never make enough or you spend more than what you have.

• Do you always end up with the same type of partner?

• There's this feeling something is missing in your life but you just don't know what!

• You feel lost, unhappy but don't know why!

• Drug use, alcoholism...

HAVE AN OVERALL LOOK INTO THE FACTS THAT GET US ENTANGLED INLIFESTRUGGLES

Exclusions & Self-exclusions

Murder

Suicide

Slavery

Family Secret

Prolonged hospitalisations

Abortion

Miscarriage

Early death of a parent

Early death of a child

Stillborn

War

Abandonment

Adoption

Divorce...

Symptoms you have inherited some kind of family trauma may show through lack of success and difficulties in earning or keeping money. But also illnesses, mental distress and a string of failed relationships.

Developed by Bert Hellinger, this is the quickest and most efficient therapy at present. The resolution of an entanglement gives a sense of peace and autonomy to run your life in a conscious way.

*This course comes with a private Constellation session with me for only £30 extra. Just PayPal your payment to [email protected] and I'll get back to you with three alternatives times for the session up to 48h later.

You can either bring your own personal issue or all your doubts to be discussed with me in a Zoom, WhatsApp or Skype call for 30 min.